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Title : Are you self centered? (Lakshan)
Author: Lakshan Bandara
Lakshan Bandara

Created Date: 2020-08-18
Last Modified Date: 2020-08-18
Category: Religion
Article Code: 138
Keywords: Self, centered



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WhatsApp conversation.


Nuwan:

ඕනෑම කෙනෙකුට බොහොම ලෙහෙසියෙන් මම අකමැති දෙයක් කියලා කරලා මගේ හිත දුකට පත්කරන්න පුළුවන්...

එහෙම හිතලා බැලුවොත් මගේ හිත කොච්චර නම් දුර්වලද?

එච්චර ලෙහෙසියෙන් අනුන්ගේ වචන සහ ක්‍රියා නිසා මගේ හිත දුකට පත්වෙන්න තරම්...

බාහිරය නිසා මගේ ඇතුලාන්තයේ සාමය නැතිවෙන කැත...🤔


Lakshan:

You are not self centered.


Nuwan:

I'm not 100% out of it. There are times I lack patience &/or tolerance. Hence, get disturbed & lose peace of mind.


Lakshan:

That's not what I meant.

If you are self centered, you will not depend on others.

You are other selves centered.

Other's verbal and behaviour are reflected on you.

Focus is outside. Out of focus.


Getting disturbed is another case.
Let go those attached thoughts as the solution.
Seems simple, but very difficult.


Nuwan:

Yeah, that's the problem. It's difficult. I was referring to the "අට ලෝ දහමින් කම්පා නොවී සීටීම" in an indirect manner which is extremely difficult for me as of now.


Lakshan:

Nuwan, it's good to use dhamma as guidance. But, practice is not difficult with too much details as dhamma describes.
The simple way is to giveup thoughts that disturbs you.
It's a brave decision.
Meditation is to practice it.


Nuwan:

👍


Lakshan:

Hope you share your experience with me as a good friend. That's friends are for.


Nuwan:

Actually, my posts are my experience. If you read 'em all, that's all about it.


Lakshan:

Sure. Same here at intellect forum.
Life is a research.


Nuwan:

👍



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